Everyday is a Great Day to Begin

What are You Waiting For? You and I both know that you have a great idea for your life. (At least one!)  You have seen it, heard it, thought about it, maybe even talked to others about it. You may have researched it, studied for it, changed majors for it, borrowed money to do it,…

Talking About Yourself

Talking About Yourself – Is It Vain,  Should you Force Your Way Into a Conversation? SO, here is the story – short and sweet.  I met up with a really great friend of mine today for coffee.  We were discussing friends of ours over the years and she said that some of our friends thought…

Next Year This Time

Will You Care About This Issue Next Year At This Time? When you think about it, will the stuff that’s bugging you today bother you in 12 months? If we look at the calendar April 30, 2013 right now – and you don’t  get your nails done this week, the oil changed on Saturday, the…

How to Prevent Boredom

Tips on How you Can Prevent Boredom Life is such a ride! It’s not hard to prevent boredom. There are sooooooooooooooooooooo many opportunities to be, do, create, think, hide, play…HOLY PEROGIES!  It doesn’t stop. For someone like me who cries in Libraries (what a CRY BABY! 🙂 )  the world appears so vast and there…

GoldenZen is Back

 Reflections It’s been since NOV 2008 since I last posted here. It is now April 2012. About three and a half years since I wrote here. I got busy. I thought I had nothing else to say. But I did more, went places, stayed at home, and looked for more of myself. Funny – One…

Create The Week You Want to Live

(I apologize for the wacky formatting. I have tried to fix it repeatedly and now would rather publish it than spend one more minute on formatting.  Perfectionists, I am at your mercy. 🙂 Why let your week happen without your creative design?  They tell us over 90% of our thoughts are UNCONSCIOUS, meaning we are…

Life Happens While We Are Busy Making Plans

Irena Sandler changed the lives of over 2000 children by risking her life to rescue them from certain death in the Holocost. How can we get past our search for meaning and simply BEcome the love of action in the moment?

The Power Broker Bust (pt 2 of 4)

Somethings I Just Don’t Control There is an art to controlling what you can, and letting go of the rest.  I call it BEING in your own business.  So much time is wasted focusing on what is not in our control, that we are left fatigued, emotionally depleted, and oftentimes depressed.  It feels helpless to…

Are You a “CONTROL FREAK”?

Control.  What does it mean when someone says that you are “too controlling” or, “Look Jane, this is out of your control!” Out of our pop psychology generation, we picked up a lot of terms that show we really understand what is going on.  (Or NOT) “This is my issue, not yours.” “It’ not you,…

What if we Lost Our Ability to Choose?

I shop regularly at a grocery store in my community called Choices Markets.  They carry organic foods and supplements, herbs and oils, recycled toilet tissue and imported bamboo clothing.  They even offer electric scooters to save fuel and nowadays, big bucks. I make a choice to spend a bit more money now on staples, to…